Can gay couple get HIV if they have bareback anal sex and neither have HIV and if we ejaculated in each other? I wanna know before i try this with my boyfriend and he said he love to try it cause he loves me i wanna make sure we will both be safe |
| WOW. lol if neither of you have HIV than you OBVIOUSLY can't get it from each other......... |
POLL: How many men (straight and/or gay) have had sex (vaginal and/or anal) bareback? Bareback meaning- sex with no condom.
1 - Never
2- Sometimes
3. Always
Before sex, do you consider wearing a condom? If so, how do you know when or when not to wear one?
This is for my Psychology class- I would appreciate all answers. |
With a women , I'll have bareback sex vaginal if I'm comfortable with her history. I'll have bareback anal sex if I feel comfortable with her history and she invites me.
With Men, I've only had bareback anal (he penitrated me) a few times and that was way back before the AIDS thing started. I will not have bareback sex with a man now with out a test.
I do have a problem with putting on a condom. I lose my erection when I start thinking about the 'mechanics' of putting it on. |
How can you have safer 'bareback' Anal sex without a condom? My boyfriend and I have always used condoms in sex and have been having anal sex for a while now. I have read that you can still get pregnant so I plan to get on the pill soon. However, all guides to anal sex that I have read always stress condoms because of the possibility of his penis getting dirty and infected. I even tried searching for sex advice on gay websites.
I would like to know tips on how we can be "safer" without condoms. I have read conflicting tips on the use of enemas to be clean. Are enemas safe to use? Would oil based lubes be better since we don't have to worry about condom damage? My current lube is by pjur and it is a relaxer. Would this lube affect his penis? Are there any "His and Her" lubes that would relax my bum but wouldn't take away from his sensation?
Any advice would be helpful. |
| **** it! I don't ever use condoms and I've yet to get anyone pregnant. Well a little **** on his dick is fine. You get that whenever having anal sex. And for the lube i go lotion of anykind. |
Can a virgin, non sexually active gay couple catch HIV if they are both tested negative and have bareback sex? Can a virgin, non sexually active gay couple catch HIV if they are both tested negative and have bareback sex?-------- My friend and I are both bi and have never been sexually active with a male or a female in any way and we both tested negative for HIV. If we have unprotected anal can we get HIV? What is the chance? |
If you've BOTH tested NEGATIVE more than 6 months AFTER any possible exposure (in rare cases it can take 6 months for the antibodies to be detectable in tests), there is NO WAY either of you could get HIV from having sex with each other. You can't be infected by someone who is not already infected.
However, anal sex does have a high risk of HIV transmission, so if one of you IS infected, there is a good chance that the other person could be infected during unprotected anal sex. |
Have you ever known someone to take back an ex who dumped them 4 the person they cheated with & bareback 6mo? He bareback his new bf for 6 months raw and unprotected (anal sex). They both are evrsatile and so they both had risky DAILY for 6 months.
Wouldnt you feel dirty to be with him again, when you know neither one of them has been tested in over a year?
But people get back together all the time, especially after 6 months of "space."
Your thoughts... |
| I think my fear would be so great that they've cheated before and may cheat again. Combine that with their willingness to have bareback before being tested, and if you value your life and want a fulfilling relationship, I'd not go back to such a person ever. Sorry I would just be too fearful! |
Help!! Bareback Sex! Is it okay? Is it possible to catch any sort of infection or disease if to healthy STD/HIV free virgins have unprotected anal sex (bareback sex) I was wondering because I may possibly be having sex with a friend and I want to know if it would be okay to not use a condom. So what are the risks and faults of unprotected anal sex? Oh we are both males by the way. |
| well its the same risks as any other sex out there. even though it is less pleasurable use a condom unless you feel like you both are clean. |
Question for gay guys: What does it feel like when another guy ejaculates in you? My bf and I have been talking about it for quite some time now. I'm a top, he's a bottom. We've had some anal before, but in the past, we used protection. Now, we want to take it to the next level - we're gonna do it bareback... But we both want to know if he'll feel me ejaculate inside of him and if so, how it feels. |
you don't feel anything physically, it's more of an emotional experience, perhaps you can explore mentally why you have this desire for ejaculate in you.
There are many people who preach about safe sex then go and have unprotected sex so do not pay attention to such people.
I suggest you wait to fulfill this desire with a partner who you trust, there are many people out there who will gladly ejaculate in you and not think twice about spreading their diseases to you.
If you and your boyfriend are committed and not having sex with other people, go get HIV tests to make sure.
You have to take care of yourself 100%, no boyfriend can or will do that for you. Get to know him well, and keep the communication WIDE open.
Now go get tested and get some of your boyfriends *** in your *** you filthy whore :) |
WARNING OBSCENE QUESTION: Broad-minded ladies over 25 only please? I'm thinking about creating a personal advert, which of the following drafts do you think sound the best?
Bored, depressed, unemployed, clean, 32 year old male Cure fan seeks 5 disenchanted bi females (C cup minimum, no shorter than 5' 4" in height and aged between 19 to 35 years old) for fresh fruit orgy.
Or
Unemployable artist, 5' 10", blue/grey eyes, no money, no car, no physique & no sense of humour seeks bored, curvy, busty & attractive lady (brown or green eyes, aged under 50, size dress 16 to 20) with own car for oral and vaginal sex in public places, relationship hopefully to develop into bareback anal sex in local Tesco car park next Wednesday evening between 10 and 11pm. |
| Uh...could you be more specific? |
Gay porn stars... (ADULTS ONLY only read if 18+)? Hi.. sorry it is a bit rude but im a bit puzzled..
when gay porn stars are having bareback anal sex..
how come they are always clean when they pull out. Me and my partner never are as we always have slightly brown penises after it LOL
again sorry its a bit rude but we are just puzzled.
Appreciate the answers |
| In almost all anal sex scenes in pornography, whether gay or straight, the partner being penetrated is given an enema (or several) beforehand to make sure that there are no accidents. In some cases the person being penetrated also doesn't eat for 24 hours prior to filming. In real life most people don't do this, but it's a shock for some people the first time because they don't realize that there's actually poop in the butt! |
I had unprotected anal-sex last night? Hey. I got pretty drunk last night at a party and I had bareback sex with a guy who c-me inside me...
I'm freaking out. What's the likelihood of me getting HIV now? Is it high? |
| You won't know until after 6 months have passed. The chances are quite high as you don't know for sure whether or not the guy had HIV or not. What you can do is find the guy and ask him to get tested. If the results come out negative then you can rest assured you're OK. I'd still suggest you get an HIV test as it seems you're prone to making little "mistakes" and who knows, maybe the guy you shagged before this one had HIV. |