How come there arent many gay chubby men? i am just attracted to chubby men. not obese, just a little belly and some nice jiggly thighs. how come i cant find any. or are there some out there |
| I'm 18. =) i'm chubby. ^_^ 208 or something like that. XD nd I'm sweet nd loving nd I'm what i call a heart healer. ^_^ I fix broken hearts and I make peopl feel better when they're sad about something. =) |
Chubby Gay Men Pictures? I'm Looking For Chubby Gay Men Picture, Can anyone Help me Find any? |
| Google it and am sure you will get hundreds of sites |
What manga, preferably adult, titles involve gay chubby male characters? i'm jus lookin for any adult manga i can buy that involve chubby gay men in sexual situations. does anyone know of any?
please dont answer if u dont intend to give a legit answer. no point in making fun. |
I'm not sure about manga, but I do know of a sex scene in the yaoi anime "The Legend of the Blue Wolves" that involves a chubby army commander.
I wish I could help you more, because I'm not as into yaoi as I used to be. Perhaps you could try some of the Bara websites for titles, as Bara yaoi is written about men that look like real men, for men...not about pretty stick figure bishounen characters for women-- aka most yaoi available outside Japan.
I hope that helps a little!
Good luck in your search |
Why are chubby gay men/bears/chubs/chasers so shunned from regular gay society? Why can't we be accepted as equals?
Just because I'm overweight and have body hair doesn't mean I can't be friends with you! I'm not asking you to sleep with me, just hang out and be cool! |
| I do not know. However, I think its because some men are shallow. I have started working out last year. I have lost about 110#s. I know where you are coming from. I am still the same person I was when i was heavy. Its just people do not want to take the time to get to know some one I think. Its just all instant gratification for most I suppose. Then again I do not have a PH.D so what do I know. |
Do " Some " Gay Men REALLY find " Chubby " Men attractive ? Well I'm a chubby ( Not Fat ) and very attractive guy so, now do other Gay Men find Men like " Me " who is larger attractive ? If so, then were are you ? |
| ABSOLUTELY there are many young and older dudes who love chubby men. They are called Chubby Chasers...not the nicest name, but there are many many men who like big men. Get out and have some fun. |
Is there any gay men out there that like men on the chubbier side? I was just wondering is there any gay men that like chubby guys instead of the twinky type and why? |
| Do a Google search on "chubby chasers" and you'll see there are tons of them (no pun intended). Why? Just a fetish I guess, like feet lovers. |
Why is it that Skinny young guys are attracted to older men that are chubby and are called bears? im very curious to know what leads to skinny gay guys to like older gay bears chubby men or cubs |
Sexual desire crisscross all spectrums. Not ALL skinny young guys are attracted to chubby older bears. Far from it! Perhaps that's been YOUR limited observation, but it's simply not true.
As for why chubby men are called bears, that, too, is a mis-observation. Only the HAIRY ones are bears --for somewhat obvious reasons.
CUBS, on the other hand, are those men of any size and volume of hair attracted to BEARS. Usually they are younger, but even that is open.
A few more years being exposed to gay male culture will help clear up your understandings, as it can and does get a little complicated. Good luck! |
Gay men, do you find skinny men attractive? What about chubby men? Physically I only feel attracted to medium built, muscular, a few extra pounds.
But I know people have difference preferences and tastes, so I'm asking this question. |
I like the ones in the middle. Decent sized body with muscle. I do like some extra belly, not too much though.
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Does a 49 yo chubby gay man have a chance for love? I see in every gay flick that 30 is the over the hill. Your dead now go lay down. I read the post about chubby chasers, but in this small town we don't even have one of them. |
It certainly seems so. I am not quite your age or size, but I am definitely heading in that direction.
All I know for myself is if I concentrate on me, my health, my career, my goals, etc. I am usually in a better state of mind. I agree with the post that suggested on BEING the right partner, even if you have to take on the role of being your own partner. After all, who can take better care of yourself and look out for you, than your own self.
Image is something that you can never get over with Gay Men or Men in general. Men are by our own very nature visibly oriented. However, if you do work on your body to lose the weight and exercise, you must do it for yourself first. If anything, we all owe to ourselves to treat ourselves the very best we can; it is after all our body, our well being, our health, and our life. Treat yourself with the utmost respect and the others will do the same, and those who don't, you'll have the wisdom to know not to invest any time or energy in them.
I agree with you statement about feeling over the hill once you hit your 30's in the Gay scene, but in all honestly, I never viewed the Gay Scene (i.e., WeHo) to be all that healthy. Fact is, the majority of gay Men are over 30, so why should we allow ourselves to be set against this youth oriented standard. Not only is it not healthy, it is not even possible......we all age.
For a good mindset, don't set your sights on any guy who is outside of your own age range. A relationship is possible, but the chances decline more so when you are dating someone who is at a different maturity level than you are currently at. Also, do what I did and just fore go all of the youth oriented media products (i.e., the movies, magazines, etc.). All they will ever do is make you feel bad about yourself. Try to just engage in media products that reflect you that you can relate too. |